Feb 7

Written by: Dr. Bob
2/7/2010 12:05 PM

DrB here! Debbie and I have been passionately married since 1976, we were both blessed to be passionate about life, sharing similar personality traits. I know that anyone can change their attitude and disposition in a heartbeat if they had the inclination to do so. How about YOU?We discovered serving our patients that SEX and ROMANCE are major obstacle for more than we thought. I have all of our patients and clients over the course of time treating and helping fill out a symptom survey form. Much to my surprise over the years, I noticed that a majority of people who were honest marked the box in section 7 “lack of sexual desire”. I can tell you it is almost epidemic, I am of the observation especially when I/we go out and speak; most people put their heads down when we mention the S and R word. This is very serious – I mean this is a very GI-NORMOUS reason many people get divorced.Let me ask you a question men – if you had regular intimacy and tender time with your mate, would you get a divorce? I would have to believe you would not. Men like SEX, men need sex, -- and we talk about why in the book. Women like ROMANCE, women need romance. Men, I have a whole Chapter in the book on what to do to woo your wife. You would increase your times of intimacy if you spent more time with wife; you would actually get to know what she likes and does not care for. What a novel idea – discovering your wife likes you to be with her. That is, say nice heartfelt comments – to get a friend you need to be a friend; try being as friendly to your mate as you do your buddies. This goes both ways ladies, work together. It is that simple – spend genuine time. Also, if you have been offended get over it – if you are that easily offended you need to look at your self in the mirror, so many think their mate is the problem – if I only had a better wife – or if I only ………… I see my share of un-happily married couples in round two. Most take the same baggage and attitude to the next marriage. Watch our videos on "Dr. Bob and Debbie's Guide to Sex and Romance. You will be very glad you did.....!! DrB

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